Don't wast time with people who don't appreciate and value you for everything you have to offer. I know so many girls who keep chasing guys thinking the can change them and friends who don't have their interests at heart, but it doesn't work that way. One of the keys to lasting relationships and friendships is mutual respect.

Goal: don't squander your time chasing anyone who has told you they don't want you around. Evaluate all you realrtionships and weed out the negative ones.